Wednesday, March 12, 2025

AND THE CAUSE CHOSE ME


HE sends you

Whispering a PURPOSE 

In your ear.

The earthly life

Takes over

And the journey begins…

 

In the din of life,

And the sights you behold,

The whisper is forgotten,

As emotions take hold,

And you live

In a world of Pain & Pleasure.

 

Then came a game changer

Of choosing

To be a leader.

Oh! how I dreaded

To be an Educator.

My smile froze!!!

Yet

Courageously I ventured

Into the unknown

Feeling sad & forlorn.

 

Time flitted…

Unbounded joy

And happiness engulfed

I was no more

The one I was.

Every moment

Every heartbeat

Took me closer to HIM…

 

Every day became my Valentine’s Day

And I rejoiced

In the love 

Of the little Angels

Who became 

The PURPOSE of my Life.

The whisper was loud & clear.

 

With overwhelming Gratitude

I looked up towards HIM

In prayerfulness

Tears trickling

Whispering…

“Thank you for choosing me

As Thy Instrument

I am truly, truly, Blessed.”

#Thoughtfulthursdays #nsn #nsnschool #mentoring #parenting 
 

Wednesday, March 5, 2025

ARE WE BEING RESPONSIBLE?

I follow a particular podcaster. Though young, he has impressed me with his maturity and spiritual alignment. He has been interviewing the top personalities in all fields. From a spiritual master to a politician to a vedic scholar to an industrialist to a Bollywood actor. You name them and he has interviewed them. He has grown considerably over the years and has become an influencer.

Suddenly, to the dismay of all his followers, he was found to be part of a show in which he asked a very provocative question to a contestant, and what was shocking was the vulgarity of the question that he asked in the name of humour, forgetting who he was and his influence on the younger generation.  His words were crass and vulgar and would have made his mother cringe and hang her head down in shame. Her son got carried away and did not exhibit responsible behavior.

Is this the society in which we live! Have all moral values vanished and become extinct? Young children, who use the social media, are exposed to such shows and the impact it can have on them cannot be reversed, sometimes. It can have an irreversible damage on the younger generation. Are we aware of it?

The people in their immediate surroundings are, their parents. If we wish to create a better world, we have the responsibility to take care of our behavior. It is frightening to hear about the influence of media on the younger generation. Gone are the days when we used to see changes in children’s behavior at the onset of puberty. Now it is astonishing to see children at the age of six becoming physical with each other! This may be because they are watching adult movies or serials.

It has been worrying me for some time. How do we bring back that innocence in the six- year old? An earnest appeal to parents. You need to invest a lot of time with your children, young and old, for them to be aligned in life. They are the future. None of us wants a perverted society. If we wish to live in a world where there is peace, happiness, trust, safety, morality, beautiful relationships, and a threat free environment, parents have to play their part.

Only parents can be the game -changers in a world that is fast losing its credibility. Parenting should not be delegated.

Children are becoming more volatile in their behavior. This is because they do not get quality family time. They spend long hours with gadgets, on social media, in front of the television, in the company of friends, rather than with their parents. The loving touch of a parent is missing. So also, the much-needed hug.

From their childhood we should give them a direction in life by involving them in productive activities, so that we reduce their screen time.

This will help them to align themselves to the goals that they set for themselves. We do not want our children to lose track in life. We wish them well. But if we do not take the required efforts, we are sure to lose them.

With all the wrong exposure and the influence of the peer group, there are chances that they may go astray.

Invest quality time with children and that is the secret of successful parenting. Establish a strong bond with your children, initiate them into the right activities when they are young, and you will be able to live a life that is well rewarded, and also gift society one more beautiful human-being, who is responsible. 

#Thoughtfulthursdays #nsn #nsnschool #mentoring #parenting 
 

Wednesday, February 26, 2025

WHO IS RUNNING YOUR LIFE?

“You can’t control the world

But when you control your

Thoughts, you bring order.”

 

How many of us can say that I am the master of my life? There are times when we need to listen to our inner voice, but there are times when we should be guided by a higher intelligence. This holds good for children and adults.

I have seen how the non-performance of a person in an organization can sometimes be attributed to the negative influence their colleagues have on them. There are a few people in every organization, who will not align themselves with the culture of the organization, and will also stop others from performing.

                         We need to develop a growth mindset

We should not allow anyone to deter us from our growth. Pull yourself out of the negative environment. If we allow someone to pollute our mind, we are doomed. Smartness need not be in acquiring knowledge alone, but in recognizing those who are trying to pull you down in life as well. Be smart, be vigilant, we aware, beware!

Values, principles and standpoints in life will help us to take the right decision.

Else we will be vacillating in life, and will not have an opinion of our own. Always weigh the pros and cons of taking a decision, of listening to the advice of others. This will help in making life simple. Climbing the ladder in our profession will happen only if our contribution to the organization is convincing.

Why should we lose out on our growth when we have the potential to make it big?  Come out of gossip gangs, do not be a part of the bullies, instead use your time and ability to build your career by updating your knowledge and skill. You will be stunned to know who you can become.

This goes for young boys and girls as well. Not realizing the wrong company in which they get into, they unfortunately get involved in a lot of unwanted activities, thus ruining their own life. They get into wrong habits and reach a stage where they cannot come out of it. They befriend the wrong gang and mess up their life.

It is foolish to allow any negative factor to enter your mind and contaminate it. Your life is your responsibility. Choose your friends wisely. Blame game will not change the setbacks in your life. Taking ownership will.

The greatest tragedy of life is not the ultimate death, but your potential dying within you when you are still alive.

Don’t let anyone in the world make decisions for you. It is dangerous if somebody else is running your life. Take the reins of your life in your hands and press the speed button. 

#Thoughtfulthursdays #nsn #nsnschool #mentoring #parenting 


 

Wednesday, February 19, 2025

BECOME A NUMERO UNO

It is that time of the year when the Annual Surveillance happens. All the process owners are busy putting together all the necessary documents. We see this as the time to learn, to share and to enhance our standards. Hence, we look forward to the surveillance, as the Assessors share their thought process with us for continual improvement.

We know how much we have grown in terms of quality since we were first accredited. Now, it is about eight years since we have been accredited, and there is a quantum leap in the quality of our work.

Was it easy to achieve quality standards? My answer would be an emphatic “No.” The entire staff had to be trained to a new way of thinking. We had to be on the same page and speak the same language. There had to be synergy in the team.  A high level of coordination and communication amongst the process owners was required. We had to learn as well as unlearn. It had to become a new culture in the organization. But we were able to achieve it. It was a breakthrough!

We received accolades for our team’s work and the high level of competency each one displayed. In fact, we surpassed the expectations of the Assessors!

It was our willingness to let go of our old ways and embrace the new system that helped us feel proud of ourselves and where we have arrived.

Achieving continual improvement in other aspects of life made me reflect on the habits that we pick up, knowingly or unknowingly. Our habits either take us to the pinnacle of glory, or to a point of no return. From being a prisoner of certain habits, if we can turn around our life, it will be a very great breakthrough.

So also, a teacher who goes to class to deliver the syllabus and a teacher who goes the extra mile to make a difference to the students, like how Dr Kalam inspired his students and won the respect and admiration of one and all, if continual improvement is what we aspire for, we will willingly go through uncomfortable transition.

To shift from a person whose very nature is to always ask God, “Why me for all the troubles?” and to become someone who, in spite of challenges, will only think about the blessings in life and offer gratitude to the Almighty, is a very big shift in attitude. And we will soon realize that this shift in our thinking will only ensure recurrence of instances in our life for which we can be grateful.

As a student you may desire to achieve so many things, but everything first begins with a shift in your thinking. What should I give up to go up in life?

In life, shifting from where we are now, to a place of pride, where you can look up to yourself, calls for enormous effort

1.Are we willing to transform?

2. Are we ready to go through uncomfortable transition?

3. Are we willing to sustain when the going is tough?

4. Are we ready to embrace the change?

5. Are we keen on gifting ourselves a new life?

If you score at least four stars in all of the above, be assured that your journey has begun, to qualify yourself to be a Numero Uno in whatever you choose to become. 


#Thoughtfulthursdays #nsn #nsnschool #mentoring #parenting  

Wednesday, February 12, 2025

SELF-LOVE AND SELF-CARE


A school has many celebrations, and one that I really enjoy is the Annual Sports Meet. The extravaganza and the visual treat of sight and sound it offers, is always cherished. Year after year the team comes up with a different variety of events. The entire program was breathtaking. The students displayed their skills and concluded with great aplomb. The applause was thunderous. The guests were highly impressed with the confidence with which the students performed.

In the track events that were conducted, the girls were not running briskly. They seemed to lack energy. So also, some of the boys lacked stamina. A couple of them almost fainted when the marching contingent assembled for the lighting of the torch and the athletes’ oath.

We may not play games all our life, especially after school or college. But fitness is for life.

Health has become a huge concern now. Are we teaching our children self-care when they are young? What we don’t teach in their early years will be resisted by them as an adult. It is easier to learn, than to unlearn. Self-care is all about consciously taking care of your physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being. The food they eat contribute to their health. So, giving them healthy food and not tongue conscious food will greatly benefit them.

                       Today’s food is tomorrow’s health.

I am talking as a mother now. I have experimented this with my child. Less sugar, no snacks in between meals, lots of veggies and non-vegetarian food. No exaggeration, even today, this is his eating style. No snacks, less sugar or no sugar, no fizzy drinks, only healthy food. One addition is, daily exercise, apart from eating the right food.

Movement is an important aspect of our life. Children are dropped in school and picked up every day. At home they sit and study, or watch television or play with gadgets. They hardly walk, except in school. So, they are unable to stand for long. If the assembly exceeds twenty minutes, some of them faint.

They should be involved in a sport. Only then they will learn to take care of their body. Their love for their body will help them to keep away from vices.

It is appalling to know that young school students are stressed, they suffer from anxiety and other disorders. Emotional and mental health is crucial to their well-being. Learning yoga, practicing meditation, connecting with nature, involving in activities that bring in a sense of purpose, will certainly contribute to their spiritual well-being.

Self-love will also lead to self-care. Talking to our children with love, appreciating them, highlighting their positive qualities and actions, will help them to be emotionally strong individuals. It will boost their self-image and self-confidence.

Children should learn to love themselves. They should not be defining themselves by their looks or achievements, rather develop beautiful qualities that will help them to feel good about themselves.

What better way to learn self-love than to observe and absorb from their parents. We can role model ourselves, and the way we take care of our body, balance our emotions and work on our spiritual ascendance, will be the right way to inculcate it in our children.

Valentine’s Day can be the day that we celebrate self-love. Only if we love ourselves can we love the world. Look into the mirror today and tell yourself, ‘’Love you so much!”❤❤❤

#Thoughtfulthursdays #nsn #nsnschool #mentoring #parenting 
 

Wednesday, February 5, 2025

SPREADING GOODNESS

 


The wake-up call rang at 4.30 am. I immediately woke up, and the first thing I do on a daily basis is, send the wisdom of infinitheism to around 900 people. This has been a daily practice. I start my day thus. I always feel that something good has to go from you to the world. Fortunately, I can share the wisdom of my spiritual guru with the world and it can in turn help them to improve the quality of their life.

Even in our school we ask children to write something good about someone every day. If they consistently write every day for a month, they will receive the Good Finders Badge. Initially children may do it for the sake of the badge, but slowly it will become a habit to see goodness in others and not find fault.

Whenever it is a student’s birthday, five students are asked to speak something good about that child. The birthday child feels so special and happy. The school provides a positive environment for the children.

When children come back from school, for a change, ask your child “How was the day?” or “Whom did you help?” or “Did you make someone happy?” You will be instilling these positive thoughts in the child, instead of always asking, “What is the homework?” or” What did the teacher teach today?” That can be addressed later.

Growing up years are very crucial. Those are the years that define the man or the woman they turn out to be.

I am shocked by the amount of negativity that I get to see. Somebody posts some negative comment about a person or an organization, immediately many join in with their comments. Most of the time it is all baseless and unverified. It not only takes away our peace, but creates negative vibes.

If we get our environment right, we can get our mind right. “Sangam saranam gachhami.”  Let us be mindful of the company that we keep. Avoid the ones who are cantankerous. They will never allow us to think positively. Move away from people in whose company you tend to gossip, backbite, complain or rant.  Not only is it a waste of time, it does not bring any good into our life.

Who is your fall back? Is it Sakuni or Krishna? Our friends have a great impact on our thinking.

We need peace and harmony in life. It is priceless. Don’t trade it for anything in the world. Those who are frustrated will make sure that they leave others frustrated as well. If you sense it early, it will do a lot of good to you.

Anything that we wish to convey, be it a feedback or a concern, let us make it in a constructive manner. There has to be grace and poise in everything that we do. Else it is a disgrace. Politeness and courtesy in manners and speech is a basic requisite for an educated person.

How beautiful it would be to fill the space we step into, with our positive vibes and aura. How can that happen? By constantly entertaining positive thoughts. It is so easy to get sucked into the influence of others. It needs a lot of will power to stay away from the clutches of those who derive pleasure in maligning people.

Anything that we give to the world should bring happiness and not make people shrink. Can the world rejoice in our presence?

I always come out of meditation releasing this thought, “Thank you God for helping me to do all the good I can, for all the people I can, in all the ways I can, at all the times I can.”  True to this thought, I get numerous opportunities to do good, time and again, in different ways. May we all spread the fragrance of our goodness and leave the world a better place than we found it.

#Thoughtfulthursdays #nsn #nsnschool #mentoring #parenting


Wednesday, January 29, 2025

WHAT IS YOUR CONTRIBUTION TO THE NATION?

 

“Ask not what your country can do for you,

Ask what you can do for your country.” – John. F. Kennedy

Independence Day and Republic Day are two important national festivals that we celebrate. Students participate in flag hoisting, the choir sings the flag song and some patriotic songs, the pledge is taken, speeches are given and cultural programs are conducted. Students and teachers proudly wear the national flag. This is what we do year after year.

When I was a child I used to choke while singing the national anthem. I never understood why I felt a lump in the throat and had tears in my eyes. Today I understand that my connect to my country started very early in life. My love for my country cannot be explained. It is a feeling.

NSN is nurturing students for the nation. Our best practices are aimed at creating responsible citizens and not just erudite scholars. Childhood experiences create lasting impressions in the minds of children. So, we give them all the necessary experiences.

It begins with punctuality, which is an essential quality that we imbibe in them. This teaches them commitment. Students and teachers clean the school campus every Friday. This has been happening for the past eleven years. They learn to take the responsibility of keeping their surrounding clean. Every class ends with the teacher wishing the students,” Jai Hind!”

Sharing and caring is an important aspect of their schooling. Students not only contribute to a social cause, they also create awareness through street plays amongst the general public, on important days like, World Mental Health Day, World No Alcohol Day, Prevention of Plastic Pollution, etc.

They are taught to make their life count. So, they learn to be selfless. This is a quality that is conspicuous by its absence in the society. Everybody thinks only about their needs. They forget about the less fortunate in society. Together we have raised funds and contributed to many noble causes. We have built restrooms in many government schools, where they do not have the basic facilities. The student council is taken to these schools to inaugurate the restrooms.

This is our CSR (Collective Social Responsibility). These are experiences that they will always remember. Many of our students continue to contribute to society.

These are just a few of our many best practices that mould our students to become contributing citizens.

Such an education prepares them to become not only responsible citizens, but also enables them to work towards making their country proud through their achievements. There are students who have attained national eminence in different fields.

As an educationist, I not only plan for their academic excellence, but also think about ways to contribute to the nation. What is your value add on to the country? No matter which profession we are in, we can be part of an NGO or CSR. Each one of us, in our capacity, can contribute to the nation, by ensuring that individual good is integrated with the larger good.

1.Just begin with keeping your street clean with the help of all the residents.

2. You can do composting of kitchen waste in your apartment and convert it into manure.

3. You can plant saplings in your street. Thus, we can create a green environment.

4. You can collect used toys/ clothes, which are in good condition and donate it to a home for abandoned children.

5. Bringing up our children to be cultured and responsible, itself, is a huge contribution to the nation.

We can choose different ways to serve the nation. Let us instill this noble thought in the minds of the younger generation. As Dr. Kalam says, “Three key societal members who can make a difference are the father, the mother and the teacher.”

#Thoughtfulthursdays #nsn #nsnschool #mentoring #parenting

AND THE CAUSE CHOSE ME

HE sends you Whispering a PURPOSE  In your ear. The earthly life Takes over And the journey begins…   In the din of life, An...