THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE

 

In this vast universe which one cannot even fathom, with so many solar systems and galaxies, earth being just one of the planets, with millions of life forces, the highest creation of God, man, alone is endowed with the sixth sense. He has the faculty of reasoning and understanding. Man, not only grows physically, he also attains, emotional, mental and intellectual maturity. Man has been bestowed with independent will.  We are capable of designing our own destiny. We can choose to live life however we wish. To respond or to react is our choice. Are we unleashing the divine or the animal within us in handling our relationships?

Human relationship is fragile. It is always under construction and needs maintenance. We need to keep working on it. Unconditional love should be the basis of any relationship so that it can weather any storm. On the contrary, if ego comes into a relationship, it will be in troubled waters. As parents, can we relate to our children with love, especially in their adolescent years, when the rush of adrenalin will sometimes make them lose their temper and even talk disrespectfully to us?  Can love be the supreme emotion that prevails or reigns over other emotions? Let not ego come between us in the most precious relationship of our life. Let us not define them with one incident, nor brand them or label them, or even be judgemental. It is only fair that we give them time to evolve. Maturity will set in as they grow older. Let them learn restraint and patience, and most importantly, love, from us. Only then will they regret their behavior and correct themselves. Else they will get into a wordy duel with us and it will escalate to such ugly proportions.

Always remember the little bundle of joy whom you carried with inexplicable joy, for whom you were ready to forego your comforts, whom you rocked to sleep, to whose demands you relented, who was the apple of your eye in the growing up years, who has been your heart beat and your very life. We cannot trade anything for our children. So, let us throw away the dirty ego from our mind and fill our hearts with so much love, that they must feel overwhelmed.   If your child grows in an environment of love, he will blossom into a beautiful human being who is compassionate at heart. Love can bring to life all positive emotions that are lying dormant. Love can kindle all the humane qualities. Love can ignite that spark in your child’s eyes. Love will make your child feel complete. A home filled with love will translate into a haven of peace and tranquility. Love alone can build relationships.  Celebration of love is relationship. LOVE should be the language of a parent.

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