IMPECCABLE

 

The door in my room in the school has a sun control film, so it is like a mirror. Hence, students passing by can see themselves in it. But they cannot see inside the room.  Many a time I have seen boys grooming their hair in front of the door. They don’t know that I can see them from inside.

It made me think…. We are so much concerned about our looks; our accessories have to match, our hairstyle has to be stylish, our lipstick should go with our dress, the slippers or shoes we wear has to suit our outfit, the handbag has to be trendy, the saree that we wear has to go with the occasion, the tie has to be the latest, the belt has to be a branded one, and the list goes on. We will not wear a white dress that has a small black spot. We are very particular about what we wear, how we look, it has to be without any flaw or blemish. So much importance is given for the outward appearance.

Can we be impeccable in our value system, manners, etiquette, habits & behavior as well? A stain in our character is worse than all of these. Being ill-mannered will make people move away from us. Social etiquette is expected from an educated person. What we do on a daily basis becomes our habit. Are we making an effort to develop those habits that will propel our growth? Are we conscious of our behavior, especially in public, or are we uncouth in our behavior, such that nobody wants to even associate with us?  Being conscious of all of these would be of help in improving relationships, in avoiding conflicts, to save us from embarrassing situations, to create trust, to make us better individuals and also help in making us beautiful, inside out.

A book is judged by its cover. We pick up a book only if the wrapper is appealing. Only then we look into the content. The main attraction is the cover. Similarly, a good personality is important no doubt. We need to give importance to grooming. But that alone should not be our focus. A tasteful dressing will be appreciated. But too much importance need not be given in that direction. Some of them seek attention on social media. Why should we beg for appreciation or crave for attention?

Beauty is only skin deep. External beauty is a fading phenomenon. Inner beauty is eternal. So, get your priorities right. Are you ready?

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